Funerals

Funerals

Christians believe that the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ give them hope and cause for thanksgiving in the face of death. In this faith we entrust those who have died to the infinite mercy and love of God. A Methodist funeral service acknowledges this hope and offers bereaved people the opportunity to remember their loved one’s life and offer them into God’s care.

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Buxton Methodist Church is available to be hired for funeral and thanksgiving ceremonies. The church hall has a capacity of up to 200. The chairs and furniture are movable to suit any arrangement. The hall has level access, a hearing loop and access to an accessible toilet and baby-changing facilities. There is a screen and AV equipment. Use of the grand piano and organ can also be arranged.

To discuss a funeral service, please contact our minister, Rev Andrew Parker on 01298 23556 or email him at minister@buxtonmethodistchurch.org.uk.

He can discuss and offer help if needed in choosing the type, timing and location of the funeral service. There may also be the option of having refreshments after the service in the church hall.

Arranging a Funeral Service

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Most people will use the services of a local funeral director, who will provide advice and organise all the practical arrangements. If you would like a funeral to involve the church and a local minister, it is a good idea to find out if they are available before booking the time and date of the service.

The person who has died may have left details of the sort of funeral that they hoped for. Ministers will want to support families in keeping to such arrangements as much as possible and in making the service a personal and appropriate occasion.

Taking funerals is an important part of the minister’s work and he or she will take time to visit families, offering comfort and support before and after the funeral itself. In some churches they may be able to offer the ongoing support of one of their pastoral team.

Burials & Cremations

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Few Methodist churches have burial grounds and those that do are mostly full, so burials usually take place at the local cemetery. Just over half of funerals today are cremations and services may take place entirely at the crematorium or as well as a church service.

If cremation is desired, this leaves the question of what to do with the ashes. Crematoria have gardens of rest where they can be buried or scattered and many churchyards have a special place set aside for this even when there is no space left for graves.

Bereavement

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The time between a person’s death and their funeral is often very busy and full of practical arrangements. Often it is only after the funeral that the full extent of loss affects the bereaved.

Grieving is a natural and important part of coming to terms with and healing this loss and it may continue for several months. There are patterns and themes to bereavement but each person is different and it is important for people to be supported in finding their own way through grief.

For bereavement support: visit crusebereavementcare.org.uk

For Buxton Methodist Church’s Bereavement Group, contact our Pastoral Care Coordinator, Rev David Harrison: bmcpastoral@outlook.com or 07805 181446

Further Information

How to register a death: visit gro.gov.uk

How to find a funeral director and other practical arrangements: visit uk-funerals.co.uk or www.nafd.org.uk